More Children Make Parents Happier as they Age

Raising a child is no easy task, as many parents would agree and the bigger the family, bigger the challenge. But once the kids have grown up and the parents are in their 40s or beyond, a larger family brings more happiness, reveals a new study.

The study published in the March issue of the journal Population and Development Review was conducted by the Max Planck Institute for Demographic Research in Germany. It found that contrary to previous researches that showed that raising kids is psychologically tough for parents, in later years, the more children parents have, the happier they are.

“Children may be a long-term investment in happiness,” study author Mikko Myrskyla said.

The research is based on a survey conducted on 200,000 men and women in 86 countries including United States, Russia and China. It was conducted over 24 years between 1981 and 2005.

Regardless of where they lived, the researchers found that globally parents aged 30 become less happy with the birth of each child. This may be attributed to the increased responsibilities. Between the age of 30 and 39, parents of four kids or less remain as happy as childless couples. After the age of 40 parents of children 3 or more are happier than couples without children. After the age of 50 parents of children are in general happier than childless couples.

The study also found that the results remained constant regardless of the sex of the child, income or the partnership status.

The researchers acknowledged the fact that couples who chose not to have children might have different criteria of happiness not necessarily related to kids. But on further analysis of parents they concluded that in the later years of life, happiness of any person whether parents or childless was always related to the children they had and the more kids; the greater the happiness.

Previous studies have always somehow shown that parents become less happy with every child. But the study author noted that the results are strongly based on the age of the parent.

“Seeing the age trend of happiness independent of sex, income, partnership status and even fertility rates shows that one has to explain it from the perspective of the stage of parents’ life,” Myrskla said.

The researchers explain that as children grow up they become independent and need less care than before, thus reducing their parent’s stress level. Also, adult kids may support their parents in old age. Therefore, it is natural for parents to feel happier as they age and their children grow up.

It is especially true for countries like Russia, Poland and Hungary where parents rely more on their kids for financial help rather than government aids.

In countries where there are well-developed welfare systems, the study found that the difference in happiness between childless couples and parents are negligible. Like, in western Germany, Switzerland and Austria, the study found, adults are similarly happy whether they have children or not. – Atula, Staff Writer

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Atula is a writer, traveler and a nature-lover. She is also mom to a boy who seems to have inherited all her creative genes. When Atula is not busy making up stories with her son, she writes for numerous magazines, websites and blogs. She is also working on her site on endangered species called

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